Saturday, December 31, 2011


Mrs. Foxy

Despite the situation. I Love you more and more!!!

My Love 4 Her!!!
Mr. Smitherman

Monday, November 14, 2011


Mrs. Foxy

The sweetness of you is unreal.  How you walk, talk and sway.  You are unreal in my eyes.  Your love for me is right and real.  I appreciate it.  It feels nice.  It is feels the best.  Our love is growing one day at a time.  It feels good because we keep being honest out our days and our thoughts.  Communication is the one thing that is going to keep is right.  We may not know it all.  But we are at least talking about.  We are at least placing it out on the for front.  We are at least just going with it.  We are perfect, but not perfection.  Through Christ we can do all things.  He buildings us and leads us to take full strides in it all.

I am glad you are here for me.  I am excited that you are my partner.  You are my friend and I am her for you.

My Love 4 Her
I Love you

Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

The Best

Mrs. Foxy

I have the best wife, women, girl that has been transformed into a women, lady, friend, partner and what ever else I can think of.
Thanks you for the first 4 years.  I look forward to 40 plus more more more!!!

My love 4 Her
Mr. Smitherman

Thursday, October 20, 2011

There Are...

Mrs. Foxy

Marriage is something.  It is a place where I am learning more and more about you. And more and more about me.  It is a place where I find comfort in knowing that you are all mines.  There is no sharing.  There is no out.  There are no passes.

I am realizing that loving you is a daily process.  Some days are easy.  Some days are vary easy.  For those days that some may say are hard.  I say those are easy too.  

God makes it possible for love to exist in a world so cold.  When people have love, they realize just how warm it is and can be.  

The warmth you are to me, is the sun and shininess to my days.

There are some things about you, that you have shared with me.  That most will never know.

There are the things you entrusted me with.  I shall hold them until death due us part.

I am realizing that you are the best thing in the world to me.

You are the brightness of my days.  And the souls of my nights.

There are a lot of things going on.

The one I want you are know if.

There is no love like the love I have for you.

There is peace in me.  As I rest my peace in you.

My Love 4 Her
Mr. Smitherman

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Standup 4 You...

Mrs. Foxy….


I just want to let you know a few things about Gods love that I have for you. 


I stand up for you when times are up or down.  Rather someone is being noisy and I have to flash the hardware to let me know that I am already serving a women of God.  There is no room for two.  I stand up for you when I converse with women.  I make sure they know that I have wife.  I stand up for you when they take a step close, I take one back.  So what if I sleep for all.  I am getting out of the way of the ignorance of it all.  I stand up for you when I say I love you.  I stand up for you when I tell you why I love you.  Rather it is something little or small.  I can tell you about it all.  I stand up for you rather it is family or friends.  They will know you are mines.  OK OK OK I might come off a little protective.  Well I stand up for you , because later on in life, I don’t want to answer for this that or the other.  I just want to hang you over to God and prays he says “God and Faithful Servant.”  I will stand up for you now until the end of time.  Standing up for you feels good. It is giving me room to grow into who I am and all the directions.


Mrs. Foxy.  I will stand up for you because you deserve every bit of it.  I am doing my best.  I will try harder.  I am not perfect, but I am beyond greatness. 


So today.  I love you for some much.  Just to start with this little. 

“I Standup 4 You”


My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman…

Wednesday, October 5, 2011


Mrs. Foxy


When something is done at all. There more than likely is a reason for doing it.  Well lets apply this reason to love.  What is the reason that I love you.  Why should I love you.  Is there a reason to love you.  Well I will tell you there is.  Each and every time I say I love you I want you to it is from the bottom of my heart.  I love you more now than before.  The reason is.   It just feels good.  Me loving me and smothering you in the gravy.  The reason I love you. Is it just feels good.  It is right.  It is warm.  Good and soft.  It is right.  It is deep.  It is all the words that the dictionary has no definitions for. Heck the works don’t exist.


The reason I love you. It’s a lot.

I will start here; 10.27.07.

It will not end, until death do us part.


My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman…



Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Taking My Time - Why Rush

Mrs. Foxy…


Lord knows I am taking my time with you.  Why Rush.  We are not going anywhere.  Hey I will just enjoy the ride.


Love Ya

My Love Four Her

Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, August 31, 2011


Dear Mrs. Foxy…


The more you revels to me who you were.  Gives me a greater understanding of who you are.  I am learning that honesty is the best policy.  I believe that the path we have taken.  Becomes our testimony on where God has for us to go.  We can’t have the pie all in one night.  But each day I want to give you a piece of me, and I will delight in a piece of you.


Communication is breaking down America.  It is starting with the families.  When two have an issue, communication is the door you have to walk through.  It allow you to reclaim what is yours in the first place.  We always know it is not what you say, but how it is said.  Plenty of times I know things are not said because we have to remove ourselves from it.  So that it comes out in a way that brings understanding.  America is losing that.  If you see a problem, just take a look.  A communication breakdown happened somewhere in the mist of it.


We are going to take this filth and bring it back to peace, love and joy.  All the things that make it so wonderful.  Back to the communication of sharing with someone just how they feel.  Staying up all night just to have a conversation.  Without all the spazing out.  Speaking to someone with conviction and love.  Without the need for any other friction.  Speaking to that one to the point they melt right before you.  In the mist of it, they are so wide open, all there noes tuned in to ooo’s.


My Love For Her

I Love You

Mr. Smitherman…





Monday, August 29, 2011


Mrs. Foxy...

There is so much excitement for you within me. That it is hard to hold.  Love is something.  Gods love is amazing.  The more I find my self loving on Him.  All the overflow just trickles down on you.  It covers you up, makes you warm.  Keeps you sweet and keeps my heart thumping.  You are the pretty.  And you are getting better like a nice glass of wine.

You always amaze me.  With your gifts and talents, that he has placed in you.

You potential keeps me running for you.

I Love You...
Mr. Smitherman...

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Thanks that make you go deeper...

Mrs. Foxy...

It is interesting what makes you fall deeper in love.

My Love For Her
Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Date Night!!!

Mrs. Aldridge


I want to tell you I am looking forward to this evening with you.   I am looking forward to seeing your smile, your sweet walk and hear you lovely talk.  This will be an evening of what I will call sweetness.  We shall enjoy it.  I know you will and so will I.  Being with you out and about showing the world who you are to me, makes me feel good.  Just the presence of you on my arms keeps all busters away.


We are the best.  And we are going to get even better.


I am excited for you.  I am proud of you.  And I keep smiling because I see who is yet to come.  I Love your whole package.  You stay on my mind constantly.


WOW, you always amaze me.


Mr. Smitherman


Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Friday, June 10, 2011


The Love I have for you will always be tested.  My faith gives me the endurance to pass them all.

My Love Four Her
Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

The best

My wife is the best PERIOD  Enough said.

My love you make my heart flutter every time i think of you, about you or see you.

It is like seeing you for the first time on our first day.

Butterflies are everywhere.

My Love 4 Her
Mr. Smitherman

Monday, June 6, 2011

My best...

You deserve my best...

Even when I have no more fuel.

I shall give you my all.

I Love You...
Mr. Smitherman...

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Happy Birthday - Day 1

Thursday: May 26th

This is your official introduction to your birthday.  A lot of things are lined up.  Some will bounce around just due to being flexible.  This night is one of them.  So we are going to build up off what you are already doing tonight.  What is one of your favorite things to do? S______G!!!

Yes we are going to make it happen.  You need a couple of cute little things to wear.  Now I know you have your eyes on some pieces possible.  We will meet at home and you can get whatever you need together.  From there we will take off at 5:45 PM.  We will grab us something to eat.  I will let you pick.  From there we will head to a location of your choice so that you can do what you have to do.  SHOP!!!.  If you decide you want to go to a different place to shop, please let the driver know as soon as possible. (West Cobb Avenue, Perimeter and more)

Now you’re already cuteness’ is required for some up and coming items.

Friday: May 27th

You will be required to dress it up just a bit.  Preferable a dress with shoes.  On this you can work with what you have or build of what you got.  You decide that.  On this day you will be required to take an early evening nape.  I will give you the details on the times tomorrow.

Saturday: May 28th

You are already ahead of the game on this one.  You got your shorts, now you just need the finishing touches.  So make sure you finish this off.  We will not be staying at the cook out long.  I would like to be home about 7:30 at the latest.  The next day might be draining, so we will need to get plenty of rest and some sleep.

Sunday: May 29th

We will be attending church.  We are going to do early service.  I will give you the details soon.

Monday: May 30th

We are leaving the house by 8:30, highway 75 SOUTH!!! You are going to experience something so different.  I will give you a clue.  “YKK”  That is all I can give ya.  I will give you another clue just a little while.

Tuesday: May 31st

You have class this night, so we will be taking the day off.

Wednesday: June 1

We will be taking this night off as well.  Just to relax and make sure we are ready for the climax.

Thursday: June 2

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Celebration starting at about 2:00pm
Well here is just some minor items for you to know about your days ahead.  Plan wisely.

I Love ya

Ask any questions you may.
Mr. Smitherman…

Thursday, May 19, 2011

You Are..

You are my sweet
You are my love.
You are my shine, I am your knight in armor.
You are the best.
There is nothing no better than me made just for you.
You are better than good and you are the best.
You are all mines, mine all mines.

You are... My Love

My Love 4 Her
Mr. Smitherman...

Thursday, May 12, 2011


I am passionate about who you are. 

What you stand for. 

How you think? 

How you feel. 

How you walk, talk and stand. 

I am passionate about your well being. 

I always want to make sure you are ok.


I am passionate about you.

You are my love.

My best friend.

I trust you.


My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Casting your cares....

What are you to do when you have something you can’t handle.  The bible speaks about casting your cares onto the Lord.  Now in your life, God has placed some order in it.  So when you have something you can’t handle.  Bring it to me.  If we have something that I can’t handle.  I will cast it over to the Lord.  If I am not around.  Though your direct communication level with God, hand it over.  No need to wait, let me know what’s going on so we are spiritually not fighting the same battles.


Casting cares over opens up those levels of communication that is beyond service level.  It will teach us to reach new levels of the marriage.  You never know how God desires for us to grow.  He may desire our communication to get better, so life rolls something that we have to talk about.  The little things now prepare us for the direction he wants to take us in life.


God placed me in your life as the head of the household.  Now I don’t take that as a strong hold nor for granite. I will say that when you have something you need to unload give it to me.  If I can’t handle it I will hand it over to the Lord.  See this is also teaching you how to flex your muscles.  See lifting the right way you can bring that inner strength out of you.  Moving or shifting something improperly, can cause heartache and pain.  That has lots of repercussions.  Then you start to miss out on the things He really has for you, because now you are occupied in a direction he never meant for you to go.


Now if you give it to me.  Don’t mentally take it back.  Don’t allow it to start worrying you or what you are doing in your life.  We can’t be an “Indian giver.”  Our marriage is about building trust beyond the outer limits of the earth.  We are to walk this world free.  Free of worry, stress and pain.  He created us in his perfect image.  So He does not do it, why do we do it.  If there are any issues or conflicts with personal wounds.  It is time to hand them over. 


Being the man of God in your life is a great walk.  He gave me a little more that I shall handle than you.  Not to say either of us are strong or weak.  But in the order of this Word of God.  If you fall, you fall on me.  If we fall, it shall be into the hands of God.


My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman



Thursday, March 24, 2011

Is Yes better than No?

I will admit I am not always ready.  See love is funny.  Not nothing to laugh at.  But on some days you just never know the direction it is going to come from.  Sometimes it comes from your family, friends or someone close to you.  You may be hit with a fist right in the gut.  While you are doubled over the family gives you that love you need that brings you right back up.  Standing tall in of all your internal and external pain.  Internally your stomach is sitting by your kidneys.  Externally you have tears falling.  Showing just how you feel.


Love makes you feel good. Period.  I personally don’t see how anyone could live if someone thing did not love them.  Sometimes you just have to take love at face value.  Some days love is pretty, sometimes it is the ugliest thing on earth.  Sometimes love tells you no.


Love is interesting.  See God created love.  So I will give credit to him any and every day.  I am learning to take the love God has for me at face value. 


Well you know what I have to take the love giving to me the exact same way.  All days God is on your side.  Regardless if you like it or not.  You enjoy His yeses and all the things it brings.  Now when he delivers you a person no or rejection.  You take it personal as if you have done something to do this.  It’s not the No’s that weaking you.  Gods no’s are actually better for you than the yes.  The no’s give you wisdom.  They give you strength to keep enduring the current situation you are in.  They give you stability.   So when that yes does come.  Take it to the next level, go and knock it out the box.  Stand in it and act like you are never going to get it again and this is the last time.  So you have to go out with a boom.  Get in that yes, and make it count.  The next no might now be what you expect.  It could be a whole lot more.


So now I have to place this same analogy of Gods Yes and No’s to my personal way of seeing love.  Wow it may seem like no is not to bad at all.  Tell me No again.  On the next yes, you might not say no no more.


My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Can I

Can I caress you?

Can I clutch you?

Can I fold you?

Can I grasp you?

Can I grip you in my arms?

Can I touch you?

Can I seize the moments with you?

Can I be honest with you?

OK here I go, I Love You!

My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman

Monday, March 21, 2011

The More...

Dear My Love…


I am really starting to realize that the more and more I love on you.  The more and more people notice.  I don’t love on your for their attention.  I Love on you because God is love.  Though his Love, I love you.


There are times they look and speak as if I am doing something wrong. 

The more negative they speak, the more and more I know I am doing something right. 

I am starting to realize that they just don’t know how to give or receive love.  How is that?  They always got something crazy to say when they see love.

They have never had love delivered in a way that makes them feel as good as God desires them to feel.


My Love.

The more and more I love on you. 

The more I love you. 

The better my days are. 

The better I sleep at night.


Love can be applied in lots of ways. 

Rather it is doing something for you around the house. 

Out of the house. 

In the kitchen or out.

Or just though the day. 


See I am learning some things about love. 

Loving on someone is about making there day easier. 

Regardless if they see it or not. 

Or rather they say thank you or not. 

It is Love. 

Love is not always a touchy feely kind of thing.

Love floats though the wind of the earth.

Love lubricates the skin.

Love takes care of you even if you are standing all alone.


See God is Love. 

God’s Love never leaves alone. 

I don’t care how blank or empty you may feel.

God’s Love is real. 

God’s Love never goes away.


So the more I love you.

The more I know I love you.

I love you.  More and more, each and every day.


My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

I watch...

I watch you do a lot.

I watch you work.
I watch you walk.
I watch you joke.
I watch you smile.
I watch you cry.
I watch you play.
I watch you laugh.
I watch you get pampered.
I watch you be all you can be.
I watch you watch you and you watch me.
I watch you our love grow into all the things God has for us.

My Love 4 Her
Mr. Smitherman

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Body Parts

There is something about you and the body parts you have and there relationship to me. 

My hand holds yours.
I stand on my two large feet to hold you up.
My large hands to your precious feet.
My eyes to always see you.
My neck turns my head just to get a glimpse of you as you walk past me.
My mind stays focused on you.  I get tired just thinking of you. Opps I just got us.
My blood runs rich for you.
My heart breats for you in all I do.

My body parts are in sinc with you.

My Love For You
Mr. Smitherman

Monday, March 14, 2011


"Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised." Proverbs 31:30

My Love 4 Her
Mr. Smitherman

Saturday, March 12, 2011


If we never spoke.  I would still be in love with you.

My Love 4 Her

Mr. Smitherman

Friday, March 11, 2011

Love is

Love is a great thing.
Love is a peace of mind.
Love is about professing your love.
Love is all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Love is apologizing when you have done wrong.
Love is crying when you dont know how to express yourself.
Love is gentle.
Love is happiness.
Love is a hug when you feel all alone.
Love is indescribable when you in it with the right person.
Love is kind.
Love is moments in life that may cause you to cry.
Love is movements.
Love is saying I am sorry when you know you have done wrong.
Love is soft.
Love is that thing that will make you do something you have never done before.
Love is time.
Love is warm like a nice cup of tea on a cold night.
Love is words.
Love is worth fighting for.
Love is worth praying for, especially when you don't know the direction it is coming from.

Love is all those things and so much more.
Love is God.
God is Love.

My Love For Her
Mr. Smitherman...

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Can I

Can I stand close to you.   Can I hold your left hand in my right.  Placing the left in the smote of your back.  I await your node that you are ready.  Once I hear it I feel it through you.  The sensation places the rhythm in our souls.  With us being close.  Me leading you and you guiding me. 

Tonight I would love to dance the night away.

My Love For Her

Mr. Smitherman

Wednesday, March 9, 2011


My Love

I will always appreciate all you do for me.  Rather it is big or small.  Short or long.  You are the best.  See I have learned to just appreciate what someone does despite what someone else may feel.   Loving someone starts from within the heart.  Love is a natural thing.  There is nothing made up about it.  Love takes on the world at face value.  It realizes that God created it all.  So I am grateful with all He presents.  He created you and all your splinder.  So who am I going to complain to, the maker.  See I am learning that if I see something wrong with you, there is really something wrong with me I need to deal with.  So my life, I am learning to just appreciate you, for who you are, right where you are.

I Love you for today and forever more...

Mr. Smitherman.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

My Mind

Dear Denise

You have managed to steal my mind though your presence is not around.  How do you think my mind is when you are not?  When I am not with you.  You mange to talk, strut and wink at me and even challenge my mind, though you are not around.  When I am with you, I can't control my self mentally.  The little things you do, just keep my mind going.  Rather you are just coming through the door.  Or just relaxing on the couch.  Though it all you are in my mind.  I want you to stay there.  I want you to relax and stay comfortable in it. You shall be there until, death due us part.

I just want you to be you.  And I will be me.
Mentally you capture me.

I Love Ya...

Wednesday, January 26, 2011


Your presence is the Sun of my day.

I Love You...
Mr. Smitherman