Sunday, November 29, 2009

Day 764: I fight for you...

 You know what... Growing up as a young man, I was taught that old saying.  "I'm a lover, not a fighter."  I use to internally think about that and would be like.  I am a lover, not a fighter.  But as I get older. I have thought about that....  I now realize that I am a fighter for my love.  See i realize this world is something.  When someone realizes what you have, they want there hands on it.  They are trying to do what they can to get what you have.  So these are the times I have to fight for my love.  Time after time, and day after day. I have to pray, fight, for my love.  Give her a covering like no other.  I am fighting to let anyone know that my love for her did not come easy so I am going to fight and knock you out.  You are not going to just get what I got.  Why, it is mines and ordained by God.  And you wont just take it from me.

I am going to fight for your....


to be love


to be respected


to be honored


to be praised


to be glorified


because poor is not what our father in heaven has for us.


and for any and everything else I will have to fight for I will get my knuckles dirty for my love.  Now dont get it twisted.  I know the order for me life.  First it is the father, Son, holy spirit and my wife then family. Out side of that things come and go.  So at the end of the day.  God gets all the glory and praise.  So don't test me....

Denise i fight for you when I am with you and when you are not.  I have to fight for you when you are not around because people want to test is the love real or is it puppy love.  I fight to keep them in there place and make them know that my love for my wife is real.  I fight for you in public when i walk tall with the flowers, knowing they are coming home to you.  Someone will say something crazy about, are you in the dog house.  And every thing I have to tell them, I am fighting for my love and how I worship the ground, you walk on.

I fight for you when some check does not realize the band on my hand.  Though it symbolizes that our love is sealed.  They always look for some way to un wrap it.  But there is NEVER a way in, so I fight to keep everyone out.

I fight for you love in my prayers.  To keep you covered with the word of God.  I fight to deliver you a message from God so that you know he is real within me and that I am delivering a word for you.

I am going to keep fighting.  Our days are not numbered, so each day could be the last round for me.  So guess what I am not going out without a fight. So I don't care who the opponent is, bring them on.  I am going to fight for you...

I learned what God has giving me is worth fighting for.   I never would have thought that I was going to be a fighter.  Now I see I am a lover and a fighter.  So I am going to fight for you each and every day.

I Love you...

Monday, November 23, 2009

Date Nights

You know what, I am starting to realized something that I have missed all so long ago.  What is a date.  Well it can be something extravagant and grand, or it can be something simple.  Simple as the last few little dates my and my wife went out on.  The first one was a "tea date."  We drove around our area until we arrived at a local coffee shop.  She ordered white orange bloosm and i ordered caramel apple cider.  We had some of the nicest and smoothest conversation to exist all over hot glass of tea on a cold winter night.

The other date night came a few days later.  Though we had dinner plans with a friend leaving town.  We skipped there treat to go and have our "desert date."  After we left dinner we took a short drive over to our favorite restaurant and we were seated with no delay.  She had the cheese cake with caramel sauce and caramelized pecans.  I had the chocolate chip cake with the warm center, topped with ice cream.  We sat there and had a wonderful time...

We are focused on going on a date once a week, rather they are simple or grand.  I have to make sure I keep courting her, though she is my wife.  I do all I can to keep it going as though it is the first date.

It is wonderful to have that one who is my personal partner.  Through thick and then, my love is with me until death due us our end.

My love for her.....

Monday, November 16, 2009

My Love Four Her: Day 750: So...

My Love Four Her: Day 750: So...

Day 750: So...

She is so sweet
So kind
So truly divine.
She loving
She is kind.
I thank God, because she is all mines.
She warm.
She soft.
Shes good, i meant GREAT
She is fun, goofy and silly.
She is Smart, Cute and Sweet.
She is my pooper dooper, she is my scopper.
She makes me think.
She pushes me to be better.
She makes me strong.
She is my wife, she sees my week.
She does not make fun.
She does not give up.
She is my lover, I am her fighter.
We are in this to win it.
Until death due us part.
Who would have ever known.
That I would have her heart.
Thank you for being my friend.

My Love Four Her

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Day 749: Proud of Her...

I am so proud of her.  She is doing it.  My wife gives her all in to her business.  The Christmas holiday is coming up and she ramping up.  The sales of her candles are truly taking off.  This past weekend, the candles sold faster than they sat on the table.

I am so proud of her because she truly believes in her product and she is satisfied with the product she is producing.  You have to check it out.  Go to  She sell scented soy candles.  They have scriptures, a devotional and a complete breakdown.

My wife is truly pushing and pressing towards her mission and goal in life.  My love four her stretches so wide.  I want to see her success in all she does.

I believe in her dreams, her desires and aspirations.

My prayer for her today is to walk boldly in the Lord.  Lean unto no her own understanding.  Follow the Lord in all she does.

My Love Four Her


Testing Post to FaceBook...

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Day 730: 2 Year Anniversary...

I just love it I tell you.  We have celebrated our two year wedding anniversary. 


Oct. 27, 2007…

For this was the day two years ago God presented me with a piece of coal and told me that when he comes to get her.  He expects to see her transformed into a beautiful diamond.  On that Day I told God, “I DO”, in front of family and friends.


That was a day that I will never forget.  I have plenty of people ask me, “Were you nervous?”  I tell them time and time again.   “No!” I was comfortable with who I was committing my life to and in front of so this was a day that I was there to take care of business. 


Now our wedding was a day to remember.  From those that were there, it was between my wife smiling big or me swaying and rocking back and forth that that sent a chuckle through the crowd.  I loved it all...  I would do it all over again if I had to.


Last Fast forward just a little bit…


Oct. 26, 2009…

I took some time out and put my mental to the day.  I love planning out events and affairs.  I love how all the details come to past.   We agreed we would keep this anniversary nice and simple.  So I complied.  I ordered a dozen pink roses that were delivered to the house.  I had to make sure she was going to be there.  She figured I ordered something from online so she did not question it.  Around 3:45 my phone started to ring off the hook, between the messages and the texts.  I knew she had them.  I did not want to answer because I wanted her to simmer just a little bit.  On my way home, I spoke to her and she mentioned to me she had a special delivery.  I was excited….


I got home and saw the flowers.  I was not pleased at all.  They sent some old flowers.  I know and I expect the best for my wife.  I immediately got on the phone, to leave a message with the florist. 



Oct. 27, 2009…



I had a long night working on a personal project.  I did not go the bed until 5:00 am.  I was sleep for maybe three hours before I got up on the phone taking care of the flowers.  As Denise prepared herself for the day, the flower came and she loved them.


That morning they were the first people I called and within the hour, the arrangement came, fixed, fresh and some pretty burnt orange roses.  And yes that was one of our wedding colors.  And they did not charge a dime.  I have come to realize, it is not how someone sells the product.  It is how they come to you and fix what ever goes wrong.  So from that, they have a customer for a lifetime with me.


We promised we would keep it simple.  What we knew we desired to focus on that day we to spend quality time together.  We went to “Thumps Up” for breakfast.  For those that know about them locally, it is some great breakfast.  it is VERY GOOD.  We had a nice time talking and looking into each other eyes.  The crazy thing about the whole day was it RAINED.  I wanted to after then take her back to the place it all jumped off.  It was a rose garden in Marietta Georgia.  I remember that one like it was yesterday.


I wanted to go there, profess my love in the place where it all started.  Since it was raining, we took a walk in a local mall.  We spent a couple more hours, looking in and out of store.  We did not purchase anything, but we did talk love.  It is the greatest language around.


After that we proceeded home.  And I tell you she sat on the big couch, stretched out and before you know it, we were both waking up talking about it is time for dinner.  It was great just to be there in the mist of her love.


We proceeded to dinner, Brios Tuscan Grill.  Our favorite Restaurant.   We were seated and went over the menu with our waiter.  He took great care of us.  Come to find out he wants to do missionary work once he graduates from school.  The degree he is about to receive has nothing to do with it.  Once again, God coming in and setting the record straight…


We sat there had a long dinner.  They gave us a glass of champagne and our deserts on the house.  Feels good when you feel at home, though you are away.


After that we went home and relaxed.  Taking time off to be with that special one.


Up next is her birthday and I am a planner.  So the planning started after her last birthday.  Watch out here I come.


My Love For Her

Friday, November 6, 2009

Day 740: Excitement...

I must say, I am truly excited.  I am a very simple person.  Over the years I have learned that I truly struggle with just allowing people to do things for me.  It is so hard.  I feel like I own them something.  I feel like I have to more or less get them back.  I am just as bad as a kid who just got hit by someone and they took off running.  Well guess what, I am on their heels.


So this is by birthday weekend.  The excitement has been building up for me for just a little while.  Maybe a week or so.    She has instructed the following things from me.  That today I will be picked up from work at 4:00 pm.  Tomorrow I have a barber appointment at 11:00 am.  And since she has to work, I so do much understand.  I need to be ready to go by 5:30 pm tomorrow.  So that is all I know.  My great friend Floyd is going to take me to lunch and we are both in to treating our selves better so we are going to walk the local mountain.  Get in some exercise.  So while my wife is working, I will be busy.  After I drop my wife off for work, I will go hit the gym, hopefully I can get in a couple of hours.  I will make the day about fitness. 


I missed out on some Football Tickets to the local GT Game.  I have been out of work for the last couple of days.  So when I came to work today, I noticed they have been taken.  That would have been fun while my wife was at work.


So right now it is almost lunch time.  I will be working until 4:00, after that it is on.  I am following the direction of my beautiful wife.  She has it all in control.  I don’t know what’s in store.  I just know I am really excited.  Why because she has taken our her personal time, mentally and so forth to put her energy towards me.  I love it feel wanted and needed and most of all appreciated.   Like I said before it is hard to receive because I feel like if there is something needed, you go get.  Something you want, let’s see how the dollar looks.  Not really wait until some holiday to express love or joy for someone.


O yea, she makes these beautiful candles and I get her to be her gene pig.  Making sure the smell and burn right.  Since I love candles, she made me one over the week.  I started burning it yesterday.  I love it.  I feel the personal love in it all.


Well I am out for the moment.  I am going to enjoy this day because it is the day the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it. 


Well like I said before, payback is something.  I know in the bottom of my heart it is on when we get home…. Heck we are grown so you know the limits left once we said I do, 740 days ago….


My Love Four Her

Thursday, November 5, 2009


My wife has been so loving and caring since I have been under the weather.  I had to stay home for work for a couple of days.  she has been attentive to me and make me feel really good.  Even just calling me at home just to how I am doing and taking my medication.  Makes me feel very good.

Things like this just make my love for her grow even the more.  I am going to just lay it on her. Keep loving her and keep doing and giving her all the love I have in the world.  It is times like this when you see what someone is made of.   Each and every time I am in need she is my number one right there for me.

My Love Four Her...
I Love You!!!!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Day 735: PUSH(over)

You might be looking at the subject and wondering what in the world.  Or you might have figured it out.  Well I tell you. I am not going to leave you guessing so I am going to get right to the point of it all.

I believe in supporting my wife.  I believe in giving her all the tools and accessories she needs to achieve to the next level.  And guess what sometimes she does not get there on her own.  I have to push her.  No not in the since of laying hands on her. But push her physically, mentally, spiritually and all other ways are included.  I push her in a since that she will keep fighting to make her self better. I say keep because she wants better and just like any kid that gets on a swing, sometimes they get tired.  Sometimes they need just a little push to help them up in air.  Sometimes they just need a little push so that they can see just where they are going.  Some times they need just a little push so that they will see just a peak and what God has for them, when they look up, there back is to the ground and all they see is the skies.

Well now that I have made that point clear and you now understand the push.  Now I have to make you realize that the over part is not part of the equation.  All this has it proper timing and alignment in life.  All of this take a gentle touch.  See I am going to encourage her until she cant not take it no more.  I am going to push but not push her over.  See one of the worst things about support is being a push over.  In a since you are a bully and you do not know how to control yourself with being a leader or taking charge of a situation.  So with being a push over, you push, push and push, until you have no more and guess what know you are running her over.  Well that is not the way this is working.

Denise my love for you I'm going to keep pushing you but never being a push over.  I share with you all the time my thoughts and ideas and inspire you to keep going.  I am going to keep my feet on the ground and just keep pushing you so that you see the skies is the limit and we are together so I am on the ground, and that is being grounded in the Word of God.

God is going to keep showing me so that I can show you.  He is  leading me so we can walk through and though.  God is showing me how to push you without pushing you over.  God is going to keep showing me how be true and true, that was just one of my assignments once I said I do...

Lets lets keep pushing each other.  We are going to do it all, heck we will scrap our knees from time to time, but since we have our eyes on the prize we will keep looking up.  Reaching for all he has for us.

This is My Love For Her....

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Day: 734

Dear Denise…

As deeps as your love is within, deeper is the love I have for you.  Your love glistens and shine, while the Holy Spirit covers your ever move and shines.  Your twinklie smile and round cheek balls and puffy eyes are the specialties of your beautiful face.  The skin you are within is soft, warm, smooth, firm and God Placed You on this Earth for me, So I am going to do what I have to do  And that is just to love you...

I love you…

Thursday, October 29, 2009

My Prayers...

Our Father who are in Heaven…..

Father I ask you forgive any of my sins.  Those of omission and those of commission.  Father I thank you for Christ dying on the cross for all our sins. 

Father I come to you today for covering of my wife.  Father please protect her.  Comfort her.  Father he there for her.  Father on his day she shall see your hand move in a way that bring peace and joy to her heart.

Father right now in the name of Jesus I declare victory over anything that wants come against us.

Father I appreciate you love.  I appreciate you and all you have done for us.  If you do not do anything else for us. Thank you.

And most of all thank you for the greatest gift of them all, Love…

In Jesus Name - Aman

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Women's Day

You know what it is powerful to see women of God take advantage of there moments in life.  Especially this one that was here today.  It was women's day today at our church.  Now were were in there for a little while and I did not have to teach sunday school, because first service ran over but hey.... When the word is coming, get in the way and catch all you can.  This visiting ministor took some time out and prayed for husbands and wifes.  In that intimate moment we payed for our wife.  I spoke life and patient into my wife. See there are times when she is on go, but I just reminded her.  We have to stay at Gods pace.  We dont want to go before Him.  The word say he has prepared a place already.  So if he has prepared it.  Why not let him lead us right to it.

I also had a chance with other to watch my wife minister the Word of God, through dance.  She moves as soft and swift as an angle moves in and through and through.  It is amazing just to see how she is able to just go in and out of it all.  Lifting and kicking, and never missing a beat.  From a far, it is like God is holding the strings and she is just following his lead.  I sit that just in ow and all he is doing though her.  The excitement really came when after she finished.  The presence of God was not.  God stayed on her for quite some time.  Once he released her, he just softly let her go, right in to my arms.  I sat there, and I just wiped her tears.  Massaged her back and just allow her to stay right where she was.  To be able to be supportive in all her ways.

After all that and we sat back down.  My lovely wife was pooped.  We sat down and listened to some word. It was good just to be taught a word for RIGHT NOW.  I enjoy preachers, but I love a teacher.  Makes me feel like I am class.

My Love Four Her....

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Feel Good...

Today has been a great day all in the name of Love.  Love being the greatest gift of them all.  I do what can to show my love for my wife regardless to where we are and who we are with.  It just doned on me today that people took notice to us.  It is interesting...

It feels good to know it is all done though the eyes of God.

My Love Four Her...

Day in, Day Out....

Day in and Day out. I have love for her.  there is nothing in the world that I would not do for her.  She is the skin I am within.  She is my everything.

See I believe I see love a lot different than most.  Love to me means, give it your all.  And when you don't have not more, keep giving it your all.  Love does not quite, it does not retire.  It does not get old.  It just keeps going going.  It keeps going and going and going.  

Love to me feels good and fresh and the morning dew.  It takes control of week situations and makes them strong.  Love is a way of telling someone you will take care of them, though they are not hurt.

Love makes you just feel flat out good about who you are in love with.  Love is love, love is warm on a cold night. Love is warm and soft.  Warm is gentle.  Warm is any and everything you can possible image.

When I fell in love with her I knew it.  I was shocked and amazed when it all unfolded.  I never ran from it. I professed my love.  I had to wait. So in turn, I had to get some patience. 

And you know what, just when I felt like it was no good.  Boy I tell you, she was right there. Talking to me in the church parking lot.  While I sat on the Sunflower bucket.  

Though we did not talk long.  I know right then and there.  I was in love like I thought.  I knew she was the one.  And just a few weeks after that, we talked on the phone all night long.  While we text cute little messages to each other.

Love is a great thing.  My Love I have for her is even better....

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Ashing Them Up!!!

Each and every day I have to do it.  There is not a day on this earth that I can get through without it.  Sometimes it is four and five times a day.  Rather it is formal or not I am going to do it.  I know and feel in my heart that when I am giving that poke to get up in the morning.  He has granted me another day so that I may do what he has called me to do.  Some feel like an alarm wakes them up.  In the reality of it all he get to you first.  The alarm is just the assurance that you can rise for that day.


As I get out the bed, I go to her side of the bed.  Where she is still resting and finishing off her good sleep through the night.   I take the first few minutes of each and every day to get up and go over to hear and pray as she sleeps.  I thank God for waking me up and putting me on my way.  I then thank him for my wife.  Allowing her to see another day.  I further thank Him for keeping us safe though the night.  This first prayer of the day is important.  I am praying for my wife.  Her covering throughout the day.  Her safety.  Her security.  Her emotions.  Her mental needs and as well as her physically needs.  Dog-Gone-It I am praying for anything at that moment that shall fulfill her daily needs.


So each and every day, I will get the knees ashy just so I can pray.


My Love Four Her (Each and Every Day)

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

What you really use them for....

I tell you office supplies is something like no other.  It’s the one thing of the office that if you find your hands on it. You claim it.  Come lets act like you have never saw a pen or pencil that you just wanted to test drive.  So you claimed it. 


Someone has just left the office on starting a new career path.  They have not even hit the elevator doors as you are saying good bye.  You have robbed them blind.  Mentally you have raided there desk and physically you are walking your way to it. 


As you look through there junk that they left behind.  You are looking for that one thing that will now become part of your collection.  I tell you I have done it once, and I will do it twice.  There is something in everyone desk that I will never look at the same. 


I have placed them everywhere.  In the shower, on the pillow, on the desk, on the floor so they follow your direction.  You can put them in the bathroom on the toilet seats.  You can put them anywhere.  With them they send the right communication each and every time.  You can just say what you want to.  I thought they were only used in one way, but through loved I have discovered another. I tell  you my wife loves them and so do I.  She uses them for the smallest things.


I have learned to use them for love.  The standard is a yield sign yellow.  They now come in any and every color under the rainbow…  My wife just loves them. When her stash of them is getting low.  She gives me a settle reminder that she needs more.  I tend to find the ones that are just as silly as she is.  She has a drawer full of them.  She even keeps them in her purse.


Well let me move on and share with you what I use them for.  I place them everywhere just to show her I was thinking about her.  I have placed them in all those places I just shared with you and more than that.  I place them EVERYWHERE….  They are perfect.


What are they..

They are Post-It’s!!!

Perfect to Send all those communications of Love….


My Love Four Her!!!!



Sunday, October 18, 2009

A Candles that Spreads the Gospel...

It is something.  I have had a wonderful weekend with my wife.  She was a vendor at an event this past weekend at a church in Alpharetta.  Very nice place, I look forward to us going back out there just to drive around a little bit.  We had a wonderful time.  So much time to sit and spend quality time together though we are there for her business.  I sit there and I listen to her sell her product, so that in turn. I can sell it the way she would have me too. 


You have to see it to believe it.  Go to .  She has scented soy candles that are interlaced with the Word of God.  There is nothing out there on the market that will compare to what she has to offer.


I have seen her go through a lot.  I have come home to see her crying because she did not know the direction to go. I have seen her frustrated because the candles wax did not dry right.  I have seen her loose her inspiration and joy because things where not going the way she so desired. Now on the flip end of all that.  I have seen her fast.  I have seen her pray.  I have seen her give up her praise. To a point now…


Well I will be the first to tell you.  All that she has gone through is beginning to pay off.  She has events just about lined up for the rest of the year.  She is starting to line up her event for next year, 2010.  Before you know it she will be booked for 2011.  It is great to see that it is all coming clear.  She is focused now more than ever and I will confirm what someone told her today.  Everything that she touches will turn to Gold.  It is her season.  I am glad that I am able to see it all start to come to past….


My Love Four Her…

Wednesday, October 14, 2009


I can be honest and tell you that one of the greatest thing right next to love is support.  Being able to support someone in all their dreams and desires makes being in love feel so good.  Could you image being in love, but yet that person, did not help you.  They did not walk with you.  They did not wipe your tears when you cried.  They did not support your dreams and be just as excited as you are.

Now picture this.

That the one you love, loves you more than you love yourself.  Each and every day I think about how I love the way I do. The love I have for her far surpass then just a little bit, and I will say, it is possible more than a lot.  I will share with you this, my love for her is real. It is genuine.  My love for her is about supporting all her dreams.  Even the ones that don't include me.  They are hers and they are mines.  So through it all, they all intertwine.  I love her so true and so divine.  I am supporting and holding her up, just as the bra does on a bad day.

My Love Four Her...

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Ready... Set... Go!!!!

Today has been a very special day.  My wife has been on a journey for just about 2 years and she has finally sit the mark.  She has just been licensed to peace the Gospel at PGMBC.  This is something that is like no other.  It is official there is a preacher in our house.  Now when i listen to ministers they tend to fall into a couple categories.  Preacher or Teacher, and my wife is a teacher.  I can see it and I see where she is going. I just cant wait until we get there.  I tell you, it is something powerful.  I am staying on my knees for my wife.  Praying for her each and every day.  I am just so thankful for my wife, her journey and her mission in life. 

My Love Four Her....

Saturday, October 10, 2009


I have enjoyed this day.  I am really at awwww at the beauty she holds.  A lot of times she tells me all about her imperfections.  Rather it is this or that, she will run a list down of them all and tell me why.  Me I never see any of them.  What I see is just a piece of Gods awesome work.  I look at her each and everyday and I tell God how grateful I am for who she is and what she is for me.  I appreciate all the things that she does for me.  I have learned to appreciate all the little things in life.  I appreciate all the things she does for me, even the stuff I don't see and even the stuff she does not do.  I am learning it is all just right for me. 

She makes me smile, she makes me smirk.  She gives me that dimple in my cheeks though I don't have them at all.

I tell you life is great.  Just because she is the love of my life.  What God has ordained, may no man take under.

She is the love of my life. 

My Love Four Her

Wednesday, October 7, 2009


Today was a lovely day... I finally got a chance to set up this blog.  This is my first post for the world to see outside of what I have journalized, did i just make that word up.  I will make sure I put those on there to.  Tonight my mind and heart is really in thought about our 2nd year wedding anniversary coming up soon.  My heart is going to make it nice and sweet.  What am I going to do, well I will share that with you as the day comes to a close.  Whats running through my head right now.  Well I will tell you this, a little flowers, breakfast, dinner, romance in the sweetest way.  I am making my list.  I am learning that your planning has to improve.  So if it is a weakness, then starting small is a great way to plan for that special day.  Rather it is just any old day or a special occasion.

My heart goes out to my special and lovely wife on this day.  She is preparing for her licensing serman, friends and family coming into town and her business taking off.   So I am praying for her at all times.  Just to make sure she is ok, that keeps balance in her life.  That she just does what the will of God has for her to do.

I love her...

My Love Four Her....


This Blog is about my love four her. The way I love her, the way I feel for her, the way that I just flat out let her know I love her from the bottom of my heart. This blog is about me just sharing with the world how I feel about my lovely wife. On this I am just taking the time to just be real and love her with all I got. I only get one chance. You never know when the last day is so I give each day all I got.  I am going to do all I can to make sure I do it right. This blog is to help and encourage all those that just need just a little bit of hope. This is just to let the world know love is real and that it is all about showing it. Love is about action.

Regardless if you are showing your wife or husband love, I will be honest and tell you this. We all want to feel love... Big or small love, pleases us all...

Please feel free to ask all the questions you have. Anything from how to come up with ideas for those special days. Or just for the heck of it. Flowers on days that just say hey, you walked through my head today, so I wanted to make sure I gave this to you.

This is...

My Love Four Her.......